2022.01.19 14:16 Legitimate_Cress9359 Wtf did I just find
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2022.01.19 14:16 HeftyPeaches I lost my temper on my roommate for not cleaning properly, and also for being very passive agressive whenever I ask them to do better. Was my reaction warranted?
So I've been living in an apartment with 3 roomates for about half a year. All of us were strangers to each other when we moved in. I quickly noticed how many dishes would be washed half-assed - finger prints, food residues, greasy and with lip marks. I would have to redo dishes, usually almost every day.
It went on for a few weeks before I politely asked them to use more dish soap, scrub mor thoroughly and to take a second look after putting them in the dish rack/cabinet. Two of them were nice about it and said something like "sure, will definitely keep this in mind!", but the third one, let's call them Alex, would completely ignore my concern and instead change the subject and point out something I had missed a couple of times. For example, there were a couple of times I forgot to wipe the water from the counter after using the kitchen faucet - literally the tiniest things imaginable. Dirty dishes and a few water splatters don't equate at all in my opinion.
But I said, "sure, I'll be more careful and remember to do that next time", and actively made it an effort to make it a habit. I would say I'm one of the people who are most thorough with cleaning in the apartment, if not the most clean of all. Maybe I'm clean to a fault, but I really think having dirty dishes is more important than a clean floor or sink. You put your food on plates and drinks in glasses and you put cutlery in your mouth - goes without saying they should be clean, right? You wouldn't eat at a restaurant if the tableware was dirty? You'd expect your friend to give you a clean fork if they invited you over for dinner? So what's the difference with not wanting to indirectly make out with your roommates via dirty dishes, who you've only known for a month, right?
The dishes did improve slightly for a while, but quickly returned to how it was before. One morning while clearing the dish rack, I found 5-6 dirty items and I decided I'd had enough of cleaning up after someone else, so I left them on the counter with a note saying "dirty! whoever is responsible, please wash them again. Thanks". It was early in the morning and I was the only one up so I thought doing this would be the most efficient way of getting to the point. I thought my note was direct but polite.
Cut to a couple of hours later, when I go back into the kitchen, to the pile of dirty dishes are missing but the note remains on the counter. I go to throw it away, to discover Alex's handwriting on it "whoever forgot to clean the stove, please do it. Thanks" Literally two tiny water stains was on the stove from whoever used it the night before. So now I'm really suspecting Alex 1, is responsible for at least some of the dirty dishes, and 2, that Alex is really immature. I had earlier sensed that they couldn't handle any form of negative critizism, even though it wasn't directly aimed at Alex. Alex is the youngest of all of us, but still very much an adult. But the way Alex would speak ill of our landlord even though it's an extermely nice, conciderate person, rubbed me the wrong way. I mean, why else would you write on the back of the same piece of paper, with basically the same wording? It smelled like a way to get back at me. So now I'm really annoyed and I decide to confront Alex.
Alex gets very defensive almost immediately, and starts pointing out, again, minor things I've missed a couple of times. I point out that I'm speaking about the dishes in a general matter and not pointing fingers at one particular person, but that apparently doesn't make a difference. Alex proceeds to say "well it's not that big of a deal, it's just dishes". That really pushed me over the edge and I raise my voice and say "I've had to wash other people's dirty dishes almost every day since we moved in!! How is that fair?" We argue for maybe a minute more and it just ends with the both of us walking away angry. We barely talk to each other the following days, until Alez apologizes and says "I don't want to fight, I want to be friends. I'll try better". It somewhat goes back to us being cool again, but it feels fake from Alex's end, it's just overly friendly.
Then, a couple of days ago I catch Alex with skipping the weekly cleaning, and I ask about it. Alex makes all kinds of excuses and I know I'm being lied to straight to my face and I make sure Alex knows I don't believe their words. I ask them to do their cleaning, but nothing happens. Then yesterday I can't find a single clean glass in the kitchen and I lose it. I write a message to our group chat that basically says how unacceptable it is that the dishes are still left dirty, and that I can't live like this anymore because it's disgusting and annoys the shit out of me. I also said I reported it to the landlord (we live in the same house just different apartments and the landlord is pretty involved in making sure we're comfortable.). I say I'm not expecting everything to be perfect around the house, but that the dishes are being systematically neglected and it needs to end. Then, Alex goes on to say "okay will for sure look out for it. I just want to point out I don't use the drinking glasses. Also the half bath was dirty this morning, please remember to clean up after yourself." SERIOUSLYYYYY again with changing the subjects?!
Then Alex writes me a private message saying how they take my words very seriously and don't want to fight. I'm furious at this point and I can't help myself in letting Alex know exactly what I think about them, the passive aggressiveness, making of excuses, removing themselves from any personal responsibility, changing the subject etc... I really go to town, giving Alex a taste of their own impertinent medicine.
Was my reaction warranted after having to be the house maid for half a year despite asking for improvement? Was it bad that I finally directed my frustration onto a single person even though I can't know for sure it's their fault alone? The issue became less about the cleanliness and more about Alex's bad attitude in the end. Did my reaction cross the line?
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2022.01.19 14:16 WhiteZero In Terminator 2 (1991), the dead weight Dyson uses to set off the charges to destroy the Cyberdyne lab is a broken piece of his Neural Net CPU model that he broke apart in a previous scene
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2022.01.19 14:16 Jet_Jirohai Why does the search function on marketplace suck so much?
2022.01.19 14:16 derrickleo Hope everyone is smoking good and enjoying their morning Cheers!
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2022.01.19 14:16 nyme-me Oh oh
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2022.01.19 14:16 tacomeup Denman brush for beginner
I just googled denman brush and so many popped up! I have wavy to straight hair and I want to start enhancing the wave into more of a curl. Which Denman brush should I buy?
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2022.01.19 14:16 lonelytrumpetplayer Looking for an opinion
2022.01.19 14:16 Odd_Estate4886 Does anybody else hate this draft?
I keep staring at this board, and I feel like there's so little top teir talent at the top. Like in a normal draft Kayvon would be the 2nd or 3rd best edge and Hutch would be a plucky 2nd round pick.
Evan Neal seems like all upside and projection and might slide into the teen's and Hamilton would be lucky to go top 10.
All these receivers are bunched together. The QB's are a pick'em (in a bad way).
I'm not saying this draft is going to be bad, but it seems like picking top 5 vs top 15 presents very little advantage this year.
Tell me if I'm wrong plz
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2022.01.19 14:16 SuddenCut5743 So I ordered an ON any tips before it comes in? :)
So last night I was digging through the collections on this Reddit and saw people talking about how the ONs were completely discontinued and I was going to wait to buy my ON but after reading that I got scared and ordered the purple magic one off of Amazon! I just want to have at least one for a decent price before they are only really available for resale on ebday or FB. I’m sure one day I’ll be willing to spend the money on a used one but I just wanted to have at least one and I’m so excited for it to come in!!!! My two questions are do you have any need-to-know tips about the ON and also is the faceplate able to be changed as easily as the pix?!
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2022.01.19 14:16 Goldman-193 This can't be real...People out there sweating their ass off. And then there is this guy.
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2022.01.19 14:16 katsupp First harvest / come shop
Just did my first harvest; left a bunch of fruits and crops for newbie players like me :)
Turnip prices suck. Attaching pix of the items in my store if anyone is interested!
Dodo code is M50S7
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2022.01.19 14:16 onceiwaslaconic Plot reveal spoiled (?), need help deciding whether/what to change about plot
If you're in the middle of fighting for a busted airship in the Star Mounts, get lost or I feed you to the kobolds
Long story short, a non-player friend I was borrowing a blue dragon mini from spilled the beans about the loaner to a couple of my players; the quote was something like "It's a shame you didn't get to use this guy!" after they were delayed in arriving at the relevant encounter.
They don't yet know Iymrith is a dragon, but now speculation is running rampant and I'm feeling super deflated about the reveal.
Should I change the reveal somehow or stay the course? How do I recover my mojo?
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2022.01.19 14:16 TexOliver93 INTERVIEW: Chip Zdarsky talks BATMAN: THE KNIGHT and Bruce’s journey to becoming The Bat
2022.01.19 14:16 AutoNewspaperAdmin [World] - Taliban economy conference in Kabul stresses need for funds | Washington Post
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2022.01.19 14:16 colewendehack No filter needed 😍 GLI35
2022.01.19 14:16 kaitonakedscarfpose Takis in milk
I like Takis in milk. it enhances the flavor of the Takis and they get perfectly soggy, and the milk has a kick to it. together they are super creamy and hot and yummy
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2022.01.19 14:16 katechaste [FOR HIRE] Character Illustration with simple background $25
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2022.01.19 14:16 MrX101 Why are apex skins still so expensive?? I'm the type of person that spent thousands in dota2, because skins were only like 2-10$, but I have spent 0 in apex because every skin is 10-40$....
Like legit I don't get it. Surely with all skins they'd think to make a few cheap ones. But no literally every skin 10$+ at a minium. I don't get how anyone even buys them at that insane price.
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2022.01.19 14:16 stopid1337 What is this? Dont say if it is spoilers
2022.01.19 14:16 Drug_Inas Ah, children
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2022.01.19 14:16 Bonus1Fact The 2021 U.S. murder rate is estimated to be as high as it was 25 years ago when close to 20,000 people were killed annually across the nation, according to a recent news analysis report.
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2022.01.19 14:16 Green116c Day/Night cycle
I saw the predator video and I agree that both herbivores are too op and that plants are too good a food source. I think adding a day/night cycle will help restricting plant growth during night and impairing vision. speed should have some downsides as well such as a reaction speed delay and making noise when going too fast.
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2022.01.19 14:16 emojideepspace Camera tickets
If Jefferson parish can organize and remove traffic cameras When is Orleans parish going to do it?
Are are we all waiting on a Nevada server to issue warrants like Terminator? Who’d have the jurisdiction?
I really hate that someone is selling us out. Point is they removed them from predominantly Caucasian areas. Who be targeting us trying to take land or whatever on a court order. Think about what I’m hypothetically pointing out.
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2022.01.19 14:16 YJF88 Symphogear Perfume
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